Your Career Path to Nowhere

For many years, in church world, the career path for pastors has been pretty darn predictable. The path may vary slightly from denomination to denomination; however, it really looks very much the same.

path-to-nowhere1You graduate from seminary or bible college and you take your first job as a student pastor. Maybe it’s at a smaller church where you’re responsible for both middle school and high school. Maybe it’s at a larger church where you’re more of an assistant or you have responsibility for only middle school. Your ministry is incredibly relevant because, unlike adults, kids will actually leave if you’re not relevant. Your ministry is very focused (because students are not). You have loud music. You get to speak to believers and non-believers at the same time. You recruit the best adult leaders in the whole church to volunteer in your ministry because you can cast vision for it in your sleep. You get even the most skeptical kids into meaningful small groups. Life change happens. All of this nonsense is strangely condoned at your church, even though it’s so different from what the adults do. After all, your exploits are keeping their kids off the streets.

But you’re an ambitious person and need to move on. Problem is, the time-honored path is to take a Director of Christian Education (DCE) job or Associate Pastor job at a bigger church, perhaps in a larger town. Then, if you do that well, you get the coveted job of Senior Pastor at a church established early in the 1900′s, maybe in a smaller town. Then, if you live through that, you may ascend to a Senior Pastor position in a church in the capital city of your state. Sad thing is, after the student ministry job, you totally disagree with the way ministry is being done in every subsequent step along this career path. And you’re pretty much powerless to change it.

You cannot shake the fact that the last time you saw real ministry happen was in your student ministry. On one hand you cannot sit on the floor and eat pizza and hang out with 10th graders the rest of your life. On the other hand, you cannot sell your soul, compromise your ministry philosophy, “grow up”, and take the next step on an increasingly irrelevant career path to nowhere.

What worked with students was focus, relevance, believers and non-believers together, recruiting incredible lay leaders, and meaningful small groups. In your gut, you know that very same approach works with adults too. Both students and adults are, after all, just people.

You’d love to start a church where you could change the way adult ministry is done to make it really work. It would be a place where life change regularly happened. Where believers and non-believers would regularly mix together. But you cannot dream like that, dang it. You have 2 kids in diapers and a mortgage.

You cannot afford to dream like that because you have your God in a very small box. He couldn’t possibly overcome these obstacles merely to see His Church move forward, could He? Or maybe, just maybe, that’s precisely the business He’s in.

Go to this site to learn about 20 churches started by guys who jumped off the career path to nowhere. If you ask any of them if it was scary, they’ll tell you yes. If you ask them if they’d do it again, they’ll tell you yes.

Be sure to check out the FAQ section.

8 Responses to Your Career Path to Nowhere

  1. Vince says:

    That was perfect. Just what I needed to hear.

  2. jonathan says:

    As a person who has kept myself on the lowest rung for much longer than everyone expected, I loved the thoughts on this post!

  3. Bert Crabbe says:

    David,

    This is brilliant stuff. I’m actually embarrassed that I had never put that together before now!

    Thanks so much.

    bert

  4. dmcdaniel says:

    Bert,

    Very intersting you had not put this together before because, in addition to the 20 guys I referenced in the blog who got off the career path to nowhere, I was thinking of you.

    All, Bert is a very brave former youth pastor who has a very big picture of God.

    Check Bert’s church out at

    http://www.truenorthchurch.net/

  5. dostovic says:

    I wrestled with all the questions for over 10 yeas. Do I think God is big enough? Do I trust him? How long am I willing to live with this gut feeling that I need to make a change? But it’s so far? Why cant the church I’m at change? What about my family? Mortgage payment?

    All of them can be summed up by simply asking myself, do I trust God?

    To be honest, 7 months after taking the plunge, I still wrestle with that question. But somehow I seem to always muster a yes and step out.

    Derrak

  6. dang. i’m blogging this.

  7. [...] friend of mine, David McDaniel, wrote a blog post a little while ago titled “Your Career Path to Nowhere” and although his angle is not 100% in line with my topic of discussion, it’s what [...]

  8. To me, career paths are not boxes or tracks in a maze. Life is an art form and so is career. When we start out asking ourselves what box we should be in, we’re lost before we start. When money dictates our possible choices at the start, we’re lost before we begin.

    On the other hand if we ask ourselves what we love and feel a passion for and our greatest gifts and contribution then allow all these ingredients to simmer in the pot of soup all day, when dinner time comes, the soup tastes great but not like any one of the ingredients. It is a byproduct of all of us, just like life is.

    There is plenty of time later to get into all the nitty gritty of marketing strategies and money etc.

    For the past 29 years, I have utilized and taught a creative approach to career and life design. My organization offers free weekly teleclasses to allow people to learn our approach and see how they want to participate in our community. Details at http://bit.ly/pNN0c.

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